WOMEN And INDIA..!!

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 Here is the condition of women of india… not only india but of the whole world… But focusing on India’s women… I am from India and i am always reading,listening and everywhere about women… Their achievements are lesser than the crimes done to them..!! It’s very saddening and hurtful to see this everyday.. Now I am scared of the sunrise because a new day and again a new hurtful basket of crimes against these innocent girls,women.. !!

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yes.. this is the picture of every women victim.. India is still somewhat a “MALE DOMINATED” country..!! it focuses on male’s achievements their glories and their system women are like a third-party..!! If any crime is done to a women in india her mouth is shut the way the above pic is shown.. she doesn’t dare to speak aloud for her protection.. because men have been doing this since a long to them and they aren’t given justice so they think this time too the same will happen.! and thinking of the society which should always play a positive role towards them but neither they play positive nor they support them they instead decrease her level of confidence and blame her for what happened to her..!! the people think that girls and women are always wrong and should be blamed for any injustice caused to them but it is wrong..!! this is the another reason why here girls doesn’t like to take a stand for themselves because they know they have to hear the society’s hurtful talks and abuse.. so better sit and cry for what has happened..!!

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If these words are only written in the picture in the photo and not used in real life then what’s the use !?… Showing a plate of yummy food to a hungry man doesn’t end his hunger..!! this ia applied for the situation of women.. we are living in 21st century but our minds and thinkings are still of 18th century where male were the counter part and not the women..! male were the rulers and women their slaves.. the famous “patriarchal system” was in practice which today also is motivated..!! and dignity of women was always on the sharp side of the knife!! destroying dignity of women at that time and now is considered as macho thing and the men supporting these thing and doing it think themselves as powerful…but one day.. one day women gonna change this!!

Slowly by slowly women in India and across the world are understanding the injustice against them.. they are educated now and know about their rights.. i know there will be that sunrise when women will stand for themselves where they will speak aloud and provoke the govt to take immediate actions for the wrong.. where women and girls will learn self-defence and where women will rule the world.. but no.. not without men.! with them..!! both parties will come together and rule their life,their country,their people.! and yes.. sooner or later this day will come and let us hope it come sooner.. so that we are able to live in the societies where the things written in the Constitution by DR.B.R AMBEDKAR are practiced in real life and don’t just remain in the papers..!! and one day will come “WHEN SHE WILL DECIDE TO START LIVING THE LIFE SHE IMAGINED..!!”

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THE END TO “MR.GENDER INEQUALITY” !!!!


Hello  everyone once again this post brings you the current affair about “GENDER INEQUALITY” … I am reaching out to you because I need your help. We want to end gender inequality—and to do that we need everyone to be involved.

We have to galvanize as many men and boys as possible to be advocates for gender equality. And we don’t just want to talk about it, but make sure it is tangible.

The more I have spoken about feminism the more I have realized that fighting for women’s rights has too often become synonymous with man-hating. If there is one thing I know for certain, it is that this has to stop.

For the record, feminism by definition is: “The belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities. It is the theory of the political, economic and social equality of the sexes.”

I started questioning gender-based assumptions when at eleven I was confused at being called “TOMBOY,” because I always wanted to be like them though I had feelings like a girl,but my outer appearance was always like a boy !

When at 15 my girlfriends started dropping out of their sports teams because they didn’t want to appear “masculine.” but i was always a rebel.. and would try to influence them to play with me and they would often refuse me!

I decided I was a feminist and this seemed uncomplicated to me. But my recent research has shown me that feminism has become an unpopular word.

Apparently I am among the ranks of girls whose expressions are seen as too strong, too aggressive, isolating, anti-men and, unattractive, and tomboyish..

Why is the word such an uncomfortable one?

I am from India and think it is totally wrong that as a girl I am sometimes blamed for any injustice caused to me it’s not by my parents but by the society.. I think it is right that I should be able to make decisions about my own body. I think it is right that women be involved on my behalf in the policies and decision-making of my country. I think it is very important that socially girls should receive the same respect as men. But sadly I can say that there is no one country in the world where all women can expect to receive these rights.

No country in the world can yet say they have achieved gender equality.

These rights I consider to be human rights but I am one of the lucky ones. My life is a sheer privilege because my parents didn’t love me less because I was born a daughter. My school did not limit me because I was a girl. My mentors didn’t assume I would go less far because I might give birth to a child one day. These influencers were the gender equality ambassadors that made me who I am today. They may not know it, but they are the inadvertent feminists who are changing the world today. And we need more of those.

And if you still hate the word—it is not the word that is important but the idea and the ambition behind it. Because not all women have been afforded the same rights that I have. In fact, statistically, very few have been.

In 1995, Hilary Clinton made a famous speech in Beijing about women’s rights. Sadly many of the things she wanted to change are still a reality today.

But what stood out for me the most was that only 30 per cent of her audience were male. How can we affect change in the world when only half of it is invited or feel welcome to participate in the conversation?

Men—I would like to take this opportunity to extend your formal invitation. Gender equality is your issue too.

Because to date, I’ve seen my father’s role as a parent being valued less by society despite my needing his presence as a child as much as my mother’s.

I’ve seen young men suffering from mental illness unable to ask for help for fear it would make them look less “macho”—in fact in the UK suicide is the biggest killer of men between 20-49 years of age; eclipsing road accidents, cancer and coronary heart disease. I’ve seen men made fragile and insecure by a distorted sense of what constitutes male success. Men don’t have the benefits of equality either.But politics have made a faint picture of their equality.

We don’t often talk about men being imprisoned by gender stereotypes but I can see that they are and that when they are free, things will change for women as a natural consequence.

“If men don’t have to be aggressive in order to be accepted women won’t feel compelled to be submissive. If men don’t have to control, women won’t have to be controlled”.

Both men and women should feel free to be sensitive. Both men and women should feel free to be strong… It is time that we all perceive gender on a spectrum not as two opposing sets of ideals.

If we stop defining each other by what we are not and start defining ourselves by what we are we can all be freer and collapse this two partitioning words! -GENDER INEQUALITY..!!!!

I want men to take up this mantle. So their daughters, sisters and mothers can be free from prejudice but also so that their sons have permission to be vulnerable and human too—reclaim those parts of themselves they abandoned and in doing so be a more true and complete version of themselves.

English Statesman Edmund Burke said: “All that is needed for the forces of evil to triumph is for enough good men and women to do nothing.”

I’ve always told myself firmly—if not me, who, if not now, when. If you have similar doubts when opportunities are presented to you I hope those words might be helpful.

Because the reality is that if we do nothing it will take 75 years, or for me to be nearly a hundred before women can expect to be paid the same as men for the same work. 15.5 million girls will be married in the next 16 years as children. And at current rates it won’t be until 2086 before all rural African girls will be able to receive a secondary education.

If you believe in equality, you might be one of those inadvertent feminists I spoke of earlier.

And for this I applaud you.

We are struggling for a uniting word and we should have a uniting movement. . I am inviting you to step forward, to be seen to speak up, to be the “he” for “she”. And to ask yourself if not me, who? If not now, when?

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Thank you.